3/3/11

Wanderlust & Lipstick - Introduction


I was very surprised when I posted about picking a destination to travel alone to clear my head and have an escape came as a strange concept to so many readers. I got tons of comments and quite a few emails asking why I travel this way, do I ever get uncomfortable, is it safe, where do I begin... It got me to thinking. I need to spread the word. Get to inspiring ladies to get out there and explore. Traveling solo can be a scary proposition. Much of this comes from the dire warnings that other people impress upon a would-be traveler, despite the fact that they may have no personal experience from which to base these warnings. I am here to battle these naysayers with the new series - Wanderlust & Lipstick. 
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But where to begin. There are so many tips, tricks and pieces of advice that I think are necessary to share but we gotta get you to want to hit the road first so let's just start here...
5 Reasons To Consider Traveling Solo:
1. Freedom. As a solo traveler, you’re the boss. No coordinating agendas, no arguing over where to eat and when, or going to museums you find boring. Sleep late, skip breakfast, take an earlier train than planned, stop for photos, or hang at a cafe all day. No negotiating or compromising necessary.
2. Approachability. Surprisingly you'll meet far more people when you’re on your own. Having even one travel mate makes you more closed off to the people around you. Alone, not only could you get hit on my the cute locals, but friendly people all around become open to the nice girl exploring the city.
3. Instinct. We all have a certain degree of sixth sense, an instinct telling us the good from the bad good and the bad. Trusting this intuition is critical to having a safe journey. It could tell you to go for it when the cute boy in a coffee shop buys you your second cup or to pass on that knock off purse in a back alley. When traveling alone no one is there to distract us from that sense like a friend all too giddy to make new travel friends or the companion tired and grouchy who will say no to everything.
4. Inner Strength. There are countless rewards to traveling solo. There is such a sense of accomplishment that comes from planning, going and returning from your solo adventure. Little else has ever made me feel so proud of myself and I know you'll feel the same.
5. Experience. The lifelong value of solo adventures is indescribable. You'll forever have stories to tell at parties, things to tell future (or current) children, and a place to in the "girl power" hall of fame.
I hope this empowers, inspires and gets you ready to think about getting out there on your own. Stayed tuned every Thursday for more tips, tricks and advice from me and few special guest travel experts.
And if you've been inspired at any point in the series to plan a solo trip please email me and let me know and don't forget to enter the We Love Colors giveaway.

23 Well Wishes:

Marie said...

These are great reasons but now that I am married, it's just impossible for me to do.

Happy Thursday!:D

***** Marie *****
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Marie said...

Maybe.:D

***** Marie *****
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Lauren said...

pretty cool!
but I still could never do it. I think I would get lonely. I guess it's just not my style.

Katie said...

Love the name :)

Gertrude said...

Thanks for the tips miss! I wish I can be able to do that one time! x

Jenna said...

Great idea! I am normally a group person, but absolutely love travelling alone just because of all the things you said and especially the fact that it forces you to meet new people... and when in Europe or Southeast Asia or really anywhere the world there are tons of other backpackers travelling solo and looking to meet new people... it's so liberating!

xoxo
Jenna

Collette Osuna said...

I dont travel alone....but I WOULD:) Good for you!!!

meghan said...

Awesome, Kayla! You're making me want to plan a trip alone. I've traveled domestically alone, but never internationally...

Can't wait to be a guest poster!

Katie said...

I drove five hours to the beach one night, alone, and that was one of the most relaxing days EVER. I wish I'd done it more and explored more places on my own. It's amazing what you can learn about yourself!

jillian :: cornflake dreams. said...

all great points! i think it really would be impowering to take a trip on my own..maybe someday. xoxo jcd :: cornflake dreams

Megan said...

Thank you soooo much for doing a post like this! I am an avid traveller, and often do it solo. People never understand why I do it, but I believe my reasons can be captured by the reasons you listed. I am not a "tourist" when I travel; I prefer to blend in and do things the local way. And of course, when I travel with others, this part gets lost.

I'm a new follower and am very excited to read more of what you write!

<3 Megan
http://www.suitcaseandstilettos.com

Sara Mueller said...

I wouldn't mind traveling solo for a short vacation.

Little Tree Vintage said...

i would love to travel alone, i don't know if i have the balls!

The Colorful Living Project said...

Yay! Do it Do it! If you make it to San Fran and want to visit the donut shop make sure you look up the location and work it into your day- or it might be a far drive! :) Let me know of your travels!

Krista said...

Personally I love travelling alone for all the reasons you stated and more!
It is hard now that I'm married, because quality time together is so hard to come by. But this post inspired me and I have a new goal. Maybe I can't go to another country by myself for a week, but when I have a free day to myself, I'm going to take a day trip to somewhere I've never been and explore all by myself!

Marisa said...

I totally agree I love traveling solo. It's a great way to get to know yourself.

Oh, My Darling said...

I looooove traveling alone! Totally agreed with you!

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this is me. said...

i love traveling alone, don't get me wrong, i also love traveling with friends and loved ones. there is something liberating about going out on your own, especially internationally. i find it peaceful, actually.

la petite coquine said...

What terrific advice! You're making me itch to take a solo trip!

The Daily Fashionista said...

Have a wonderful adventure! It's so hard for me to get alone time due to my work schedule and being married, so enjoy this luxury:) My quiet travel time usually involves just going to the drug store by myself! lol.

kelli g. { bug miscellany } said...

a solo road trip is on my list of things to do before i turn the big 3-0. thanks for the motivation! :)

NodToStyle said...

I'm always surprised by people who are completely shocked to hear about my travel adventures. I, on the other hand, think traveling is just about the solution to everything ;)
Love this post! Solo travel can be scary, but so rewarding.